What does leadership look like when life delivers its hardest challenge? In this deeply moving episode of Leadership Blueprints, BJ Kraemer welcomes NC State defensive coordinator DJ Eliot to talk about coaching, mentorship, and resilience both on and off the football field. DJ explains the philosophy behind his renowned “Skill Drill Time” approach to player development, building winning cultures in today’s ever-changing college football landscape, and the invaluable role mentorship has played throughout his career. DJ also shares his family’s extraordinary journey through his daughter’s courageous six-year battle with cancer, and the role of courage, presence, and gratitude when life doesn’t go according to plan. Tune in to hear why you should always choose to fight, embrace each day with purpose, and inspire others through the way we live, with DJ Eliot.
Key Points From This Episode:
- Discover the philosophy behind DJ’s approach to coaching.
- Find out who inspired DJ to develop his coaching framework.
- Uncover the value of mentorship and a lifelong growth mindset.
- Hear how DJ got into coaching football as a profession.
- The differences between coaching professional and college football.
- Explore how situational preparation separates winning teams from the rest.
- Get an update on the Wolf Pack, including key players.
- Learn how today’s college football landscape has impacted leadership styles.
- Understand what it takes to be a leader and build a winning culture.
- Unpack why effective leaders must earn trust before expecting others to follow.
- DJ shares how his family overcame the loss of his daughter through leadership.
- Reflect on his daughter’s inspiring message: always choose to fight.
- Why being fully present is one of life’s greatest leadership skills.
Quotes:
“Players don’t do what you tell them to do; players do what you train them to do.” — @CoachEliot [0:03:26]
“You can’t perform a job if you don’t know what the job description is.” — @CoachEliot [0:07:34]
“If you don’t continue to figure out how to get better – and if you don’t continue to try to learn, then you won’t make it in [the coaching] profession, because it’s constantly changing.” — @CoachEliot [0:08:42]
“If you have a hungry roster, then you got a chance.” — @CoachEliot [0:15:41]
“You’re not leading if nobody is following you.” — @CoachEliot [0:19:53]
Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
North Carolina State University
Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia (CHOP)
‘How DJ Eliot’s daughter continues to inspire him and his family’